Masturbation gets a lot of hype. It’s painted as the ultimate form of self-care, a stress reliever and a way to “get in touch” with your body. And for some, it’s all of that and more!

But what if you’re just… not into it?

If you’re feeling like everyone’s talking about masturbating as a must-do, here’s a PSA: if it’s not your thing, that’s totally OK.

Why Some People Just Aren’t Into It

Not vibing with masturbation? You’re not alone, and there are heaps of reasons why it might not hit for you. Not that you need one to justify that- it just might not be that deep!

Whether you prefer exploring things with a partner, aren’t into the feeling, or just don’t feel the need for it, period- all 100% valid.

TLDR: Whether or not you masturbate, what matters is going with what’s right for you.

Sexual Empowerment = Choice

Being sexually liberated might not mean being open to everything- it’s all about choosing to do what you enjoy, and that includes masturbation, too! Empowerment is about doing what’s comfortable, authentic, and enjoyable for you, not what TikTok or your mates say is the norm.

So, if masturbating isn’t your thing, you’re not broken. There’s nothing to “fix.” And you definitely don’t need to force yourself to do it just because other people do.

The Bottom Line

Everyone’s relationship with pleasure is different. If you’re into masturbation, amazing. If you’re not? Still amazing. Sexuality is personal, and there’s no “right” way to explore it!

So, when the convo comes up, just remember: your body, your rules, even when you’re on your own.